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This goofy pup is learning to LOVE his Grooming Muzzle (aka Mickey Muzzle). It isn't even clipped -he's just licking Peanut Butter from inside and learning that sticking his nose inside is FANTASTIC!
Dear Kaitlyn,
I am so glad to hear that your pup is OK. And yes, it is certainly possible to use a muzzle to prevent your dog from eating harmful substances or from scavenging nasty items when romping off-leash. It sounds as if you have already planned to use a muzzle for management while you complete training.
Please be sure that your dog is comfortable with the muzzle. A special training processed called Desensitization & Counter-Conditioning can be used to teach a dog (or any animal) to be more comfortable with new items. Also, if your dog is wearing the muzzle for long periods of time (more than 15-20 minutes in moderate temperatures) be sure that the muzzle is light-weight and that your dog can pant and drink water.
Mickey Muzzles (shown in the photo above) when fitted properly do not allow dogs to open their mouths. They are NOT for use in training situations as they should not be left on the dog for any length of time -especially if unsupervised. Sometimes Grooming Muzzles are used when dogs are taken on public transportation -in these situations the dog is supervised and should not be exposed to warm temperatures or long trips.

A flexible polyethylene Basket Muzzle is best for long-term use. They allow dogs to pant and drink water. Because they tend to look "scary" I like to decorate them; Ribbons,
non-toxic paint (nail-polish works too), and cute scarves, bows, and collars help soften the effect. If that isn't your cup of tea, you can try ordering one that matches your dogs fur (more of a blend-in, rather than a muzzle-flamboyant style).
Here are some other points to consider.
Puppy-Proofing is paramount, but if you don't know what is TOXIC, you can't do your job as a puppy parent. Check out tips from DOGTIME.COM. A good place to start is the article Poison Proofing Your Home.
Confine your pup or new dog when you can't supervise them. Create a nice, safe place for your dog to hang out when you are busy. This can be a laundry room, gated kitchen or bathroom. Whatever space you choose, clear the area of all potential hazards and valuables.
Teach your dog some manners. More on begging, stealing and commands for leaving items, like Drop-it.
Make sure your pup has plenty of LEGAL CHEW ITEMS! This is super important for dogs that have hunting backgrounds like Jack Russell Terriers & Beagles, or for dogs that are master chewers like Labradors, Rottweilers, and Pit Bull Terriers. I like Kongs stuffed with food. In fact, my dogs haven't eaten out of bowls in years. All their food goes into Kongs and they chew, lick, and suck their food out as if they were working on a freshly killed chunk of meat.
Get help from a Certified Dog Trainer. Not all trainers are certified and not all trainers use humane, modern dog training methods. For a list of certified trainers in your area try doing a search for an SPCA Certified Trainer in your area. The SF/SPCA Academy for Dog Trainers is run by Jean Donaldson, author of many wonderful books on dog training, including my favorite -The Culture Clash.
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MORE ON KONGS!!!
http://blogs.dogtime.com/secret-shopper-pet-product-reviews/2008/10/kong-what-would-we-do-without-you
http://blogs.dogtime.com/go-dog-training/2008/09/behaving-badly
http://www.sfspca.org/resources/library/for-dog-owners/abcs/kong-stuffing.pdf
http://www.kongcompany.com/worlds_best.html
Dear Six-Months & SepAnxie,
It is unclear from the information that you have given me whether your pup has the disorder called Separation Anxiety or whether you have a very normal, rascally pup who just got bored or frustrated when left alone. Is that her picture? She looks very cute. For both your sakes, I hope your pup is just a rascal; Separation Anxiety is not easy to fix and rarely gets better without professional help.
I am a little concerned that she is already 6-months old and has not been left alone more than a few times. Did you just adopted her? Are you taking her to work or doggie daycare? Is someone almost always at home? Or, have you avoided leaving her alone because of the mess she makes?
Always staying with or taking along your pup may seem "better." However, puppies who are not crate/confinement-trained and/or left alone before 3-4 months of age are more likely to vocalize excessively and behave destructively when left alone later in life. It is not too late to teach her to be alone, but it might take some patience & dedicated training. Again that she is 6-month and making a mess does not mean she has Separation Anxiety Disorder, she may just be a normal, messy pup. Even if she does not like being left alone, there is hope. I hope the post below can guide you.
Thanks for inquiring,
IS YOUR PUPPY PITCHING-A-FIT WHEN LEFT ALONE?
For many owners/guardians it is hard to gauge a "normal" amount of puppy barking, whining, flailing. This is increasingly hard when one is trying to accomplish crate/confinement-training. Depending on the dog, it can seem like your puppy is suffering horrifically when you leave her alone. While it often sounds awful, there is a good degree of hyped up hysterics that can just be ignored. This is easy for trainers and other dog professionals, but hard for new puppy parents who are justifiably protective of their new pup.
Puppies come pre-programmed with a highly-successful attention-seeking behavior: bark, howl, cry, whine. When this doesn't work, (because you ignore their barking (look away, stay away, or stop talking, looking or petting) they throw a puppy-temper-tantrum. This can look and sound downright scary, so it is understandable why owners panic and grope for information about what is happening. However jumping to a diagnosis of Separation Anxiety for a pup that barks is like determining that someone who ate dinner and then threw up is bulimic. Let's rule out normal puppy tantrum and learned barking (flu or food poisoning) first.
Pups can learn that barking gets stuff -AND they learn it quickly at a very young age. The truth is that most pups who bark, whine, howl, and yip when left alone are just being normal pups. When they are born pups learn that whining, whimpering and yowling gets them food, relief and warmth. Later when the pup moves in with people, it must learn that barking does not work. Ignoring the noise is the only way to teach your pup that barking does NOT work.
Punishing a pup for barking is a mistake, it will ruin your relationship, and possibly make the dog aggressive. Or, the dog will learn to bark when no one can get there to deliver a punishment, but will bark freely when you are not around. It is hard to ignore a barking dog. Here are some tips. IGNORE means: Do not look at, talk to, touch or go towards your pup.
Do not return to or let your pup out until the pup has completely given up making noise & settles into doing something else, like laying down, chewing, or eating. When it is time to let your pup out again, praise your pup clearly from outside the room. Then, go get your puppy. In this version, once you praise the pup, they get out -even if they make noise once you enter the room. Use the same phrase each time you praise your dog. Here is a harder, tough-love version. Enter the room, leave immediately if your pup starts to make noise again (don't choose this version if your pup has been in there a long time and is ready for a potty-break).
Puppies are messy! Pups that chew, shred, smear, and gnaw on this are also normal. There is no fancy label for their behavior, they are just young. They can, and will make a mess especially if left alone for long periods of time (more than 2-3 hours). It is not unusual for pups to chew on paper, shred wee-pads, or smear their pee & poop around. They don't do it on purpose -it just happens to be there when they are romping around and making up their own games.
There are things you can do to minimize messes. Unless your pup has caused serious damage to a door, window, gate, crate or worse themselves, they are a normal pup. Most messes are NOT done in a panic, but that instead the results of a darn good solo-puppy-party! However, if your dog has done serious damage to a door, window, gate, crate or bloodied their paws or face, then you may have a dog with Separation Anxiety Disorder.
Understanding & DEALING WITH NORMAL PUPPY BARKING
Barking can be done anywhere and so it is the most difficult to manage. There are many things you can do to channel your pups play-energy into appropriate places. Exercise, play fetch and tug, Kong-feeding, chew-toys, puppy-proofing, gating, and crating all help minimize and contain a mess. More importantly a tired pup is a quiet pup.
Confining and/or crating a pup is important and should be done despite the fact that your pup might rather not be away from you. Toddlers that fuss when put in a car seat do not get to ride on your lap simply because they want to be there. Eventually kids stop fussing about car seats and seat belts because it fails to work. However temper tantrums are aweful -they are more than complaints; they are last ditch efforts to get something, or get out of something. Puppy barking can be very loud if the pup is frustrated. This can happen when they are learning that what used to work, crying for food, milk, warmth, companionship, is no longer an acceptable way to ask for things (that worked with dog-mom, but not people-parents).
IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT, DO YOU STILL HAVE TO CRATE/CONFINEMENT-TRAIN YOUR PUPPY?
Yes. Imagine if you boarded a plane and the person next to you just started sobbing, them screaming and rolling on the ground. When a baby cries it is annoying, but acceptable age-appropriate behavior. For an adult to do this instead of asking for a blanket or beverage is abnormal. The times in your life at which you learned that screaming and crying would not get you things was probably stressful and frustrating for you and your parents. Crate/confinement-training is not easy, but it is necessary for a well-adjusted dog.
Now that you understand WHY your puppy is barking...
You can TEACH YOUR PUPPY TO BE ALONE
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Now that you understand WHY your puppy is barking...
You can TEACH YOUR PUPPY TO BE ALONE
Do You Have A Training Question For Kelley? Click Here.
Now that you understand WHY your puppy is barking...
You can TEACH YOUR PUPPY TO BE ALONE!
If you have never left your puppy alone it is important to do everything that you can to set them up for success.
Puppies should have an area that is safe and can be gated-off. If you have a jumper, try stacking two gates. I prefer this to shutting a door. Door need to be opened to see what is happening, and they can be scratched. If you aren't sure... start by stacking two gates so that any jumping attempts will fail.
This area should be easy-to-clean, in case your pup has an accident. Tile and linoleum floor are best. Cement is porous and will absorb odors unless protected with a sealant. The puppy confinement area should be safe. Remove any items of value and anything your pup might chew or make a mess with such as plants, books, baskets, clothing, cleaning items etc...
This area should have a crate. The door can be left open and a comfortable bed can be inside the crate. There should be some water in a spill-proof bowl. You don't want to have to go back because they barked, jumped and knocked over the water. This will give your dog the idea that barking & spilling = mommy and daddy come back.
Try putting your puppy in this area when she is:
EXHAUSTED! Think a 3-hour walk or hike, a doggie-play session at the beach, an afternoon with the kids from the neighborhood.
HUNGRY! I encourage you to skip or go light on a meal or two. It won't hurt the pup if they miss a lunch meal just once.
You should be:
RESTED! Don't do this when you are tired, cranky or short on patience.
READY FOR SOME NOISE! Earphones, movie, music, home-workout.
NOT GOING ANYWHERE! Don't actually leave during or after the first time you do this.
THE PLAN FOR PUPPIES FIRST SUCCESSFUL ALONE-TIME.
- Skip breakfast, but prepare a really tasty Kong and put it in the fridge.
- Check that the confinement area is fully prepared and puppy-proofed.
- Take your puppy out for a really, really long hike, play session, walk or combination of all of this.
- Bring the pup back home (don't let this be a long nappy car trip (this will undo the exercise).
- Take your pup to their potty area and allow them time to take care of business.
- Go to the kitchen and get the Kong and a few chew items.
- Put the puppy in the confinement area and give them the Kong. Secure the gate (stacking if necessary).
- Walk away and out of the room -IGNORE what you hear.
- Wait until the puppy is quiet for at least 10-15 minutes, then listen (without disturbing).
Does it sound like the pup is asleep? Eating from the Kong? Chewing? Congratulations. Now just let your pup out BEFORE they start to cry again.
Feed your pup like this everyday. Soon they will need only normal amounts of exercise and you can start putting their regular food in the kong with less and less of the really amazing treats.
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Signs of Separation Anxiety DISORDER
If your dog is showing one or more of these signs, you should contact a Certified Dog Trainer or Behaviorist immediately.








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